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Problem versus Challenge

from dictionary.reference.com: Problem:  any   question   or   matter   involving   doubt ,  uncertainty,   or   difficulty. Challenge:  something   that   by   its   nature   or   character   serves   as   a   call   to   battle,   contest,   special   effort,   etc.: "Detours, challenges, and crisis, are simply covers for miracles that had no other way of reaching you. - Mike Dooley Problem and Challenge:  two words that are strikingly similar yet imply a different call to action. It seems to me, by the definition of these words, that a "problem" often is the first stage of what inevitably can become a "challenge." To me, a "problem" implies something often negative; an invisible wall that has no immediate sense of a solution. A "challenge" goes a step further.  Yes, the invisible wall is there, but instead of just saying "oh no, the...

Every time I let go, I have a breakthrough

Letting go sometimes happens at the most inopportune times.  Sometimes it takes a while to build up and you feel it, but sometimes it is out of the blue.  And by "letting go", I mean in several senses: crying, psychologically letting go, or even physically letting go of a possession.  In any case, you are stuck between two times: the past where this thing was a part of your life, and the future, where it exists as a memory or in another form. We often resist letting go because it's scary.  It's uncomfortable.  Is it really necessary, we ask ourselves? The decision to let go may come way before the letting go actually happens.  After letting go, we may feel a loss, or disconcerted.  This object or routine or way of thinking was so common to us, and now we are in an uncharted territory, lost and in need of a good mental GPS system. The joyous thing about letting go is that it allows new thoughts, new things, and new opportunities to come into our live...